What type of people do you want to surround yourself with: caring, friendly, successful, happy, ambitious or passionate ․․․
And what type of people do you surround yourself with at this moment?
We are who we surround ourselves with. As we are, so are the people around us. Whatever characteristics of ourselves we show and reveal, so become people around us.
We humans are social beings. We humans are formed in communication. If we show indifference to the people around us, we receive indifference because we teach other people to be indifferent.
If we are not caring for our parents, they learn not to care for us or for themselves. If we are indifferent to our children, they learn to be indifferent to both us and themselves.
In this way, we create a circle of people surrounding us. It becomes comfortable for us, and we don't even notice that we are living, for example, in the company of happy people or in the company of unsuccessful people. It becomes natural, normal, comfortable for us.
What to do if we want to break that circle? It is often easier to explore the people around us and find their characteristics than to find them in ourselves. Therefore, explore your surroundings at this moment.
1 ․ Who do you communicate with?
2 ․ What characteristics do those people have?
3 ․ How do these people treat you?
It is very important to write down both positive and negative traits or attitudes. In this way, you will realize that if your friends treat you indifferently, then you are indifferent to them. Keep digging․ Maybe you just don't care about them.
Likewise, if both you and the people around you are successful, it means you have taught them to be successful.
We create people around us by our example, our behavior and our attitude. At the same time, those people influence us, our behavior, our thinking, our attitude.
If we don't like the people around us, we may try to communicate with other people. However, if we do not change anything in ourselves, be assured that no change will take place in the environment regardless of the change in people.
Analyze the behavior and attitude of those around you. What do you want to change, what are you ready to change? Change it in yourself!